Sunday, June 20, 2010

Hazeldiddlies in Heaven

Today didn’t work out to be a very Happy Father’s Day. We got news mid day that my mom’s only sister, my Aunt Flossie, passed away losing her battle with ovarian cancer. It is bittersweet since none of us wanted her to suffer any more and knew that she was anxious to meet God, but the thought of family gatherings without this kind-hearted and loving, woman who loved to dance, had a contagious sparkle about her that everyone loved is just beyond comprehension right now. She was by modern-day standards a foodie. She loved and appreciated great food. No matter what the event or place she went, she would always entertain us with great tales of how good the food looked or tasted. I will never be able to eat an ice cream cone without thinking of her. In fact, we stopped by Moos, our favorite beachside ice cream stop, on the way home from church tonight. Ashley and I toasted our ice creams in her honor. There are so many little things about her that I will miss. like trying to keep up with her doing water aerobics or a line dance for that matter! She and I share so many things in common. Whether it was the thrill of a great bargain, a love of sharp clothers, the contagious urge to dance to a great beat, the gift of gab, speaking up for things we feel strongly about, the thrill of traveling or just always wanting to be on the go, I defintely see a lot of her in me.

Growing up, we lived down the street from my aunt, uncle and cousins. We took family vacations with them every year and still continue to do family reunions whenever possible. Our families were and will always be lovingly intertwined. She was as much a second mom to me as she was an aunt so even though my mind knows I should be rejoicing that she is at peace, my heart is still grieving her loss.

When we were little, we had this little tradition that if something really wonderful happened, she would call us over for a rambuncious round of twirling in an energetic dance she called a “hazeldiddly”. I have no doubt in my mind, Aunt Floss, that you were warmly welcomed by God, your mom, dad and husband, Rob and that everyone was dancing hazzlediddlies in heaven welcoming in a soul as wonderful as you! >

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Puttin' On the Glitz - published article in S&SA mag.


If you haven't seen the July issue of Scrap & Stamp Arts magazine, yet, then now is the time to pick up a copy. It contains my article, Puttin’ on the Glitz in which I share techniques on how to make your designs sparkle & shine.
Some of the fun supplies used in the samples include glitter, flocking, clear craft laquer, ribbon adhesive, Wall Art adhesive, embossing powders and more! If you can't find a copy of it at your local craft or grocery store, click here to order a copy online. And I also just received the exciting news that I will also be featured in the upcoming January 2011 All Star issue.

Below is a sneak peek at the the Fourth of July theme card I created as one of the project samples in the July 2010 S&SA article. The full card front is featured in the article, as shown above.


Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Time to get Tropical


Both of my girls have summer birthdays so we are always planning pool party celebrations. Here is a quick and easy digital invitation I made for Ashley to email her friends. I used my new digi clip art set called Sew Pastel Flowers.


Wednesday, June 2, 2010

A Butterfly Gathering


I am not quite sure what it is about butterflies that make us smile and lift our spirits. After my uncle passed away in 2000 he has decided to let his presence be felt through random (or as I believe, not so random) butterfly visits. The first occurred during our first beach visit to Wildwood, NJ where our family vacationed every summer with my aunt, uncle and our cousins. We all still were feeling the sadness and loss of this vibrant personality and kidder. We were talking in our group of women as our kids and husbands relaxed or played with the kids on the beach. We all said how "muzzy" (his knickname) was definitely missed. As his daughter-in-law was video taping the kids, they laughed at how this butterfly mistook my brightly flowered bathing suit for the real deal and landed on my butt. Was this a coincidence or just like him to show up on que? Well, my uncle in the day was quite the practical joker and this butterfly shared the same spirit landing from butt to butt. We laughed and joked that Muzzy was with us afterall...just like him to not want to miss out on the trip. Even stranger, and if you have ever been to the Jersey Shore you can appreciate this. The butterfly left our chat fest and went up to our umbrella, circled around then flew off. Mind you, there were probably over 200 umbrellas to choose from and ours was navy, white and quite sun bleached...definitely not the brightest of the bunch!

Over the months and years I would get visits from Monarch butterflies in my garden. I would silently talk to my uncle and tell him how much he was missed. Sometimes he would visit my front garden or fly by me on my walks and bring along a buddy, which I believe was my grandpop Joe, who died just two months before my uncle. He even showed his approval for the home we picked here in Florida by mysteriously appearing inside the covered lanai as Dan, the girls and I contemplated our choices. It just happened to also be near his birthday.

The most remarkable encounter was one year on Father's Day. A monarch was trapped inside our screened enclosure and was sitting awkwardly on the tile surround of our pool. I got a stick and tried to transfer it outside the enclosure. My daughter Ashley was helping me with the door. She watched in disbelief as the buttterfly flew like a parrot and landed on my shoulder, where it sat for a long time as I walked into the back yard. We took pictures of it and it lingered for the longest time. I went to move it and it sat gently on my hand until I placed it on top of a plant in our garden. You see, my uncle was even more special in my life, he was also my godfather so it made total sense that this Father’s Day would be one of our last encounters.

As my aunt, his widow, battles the horrible side effect of chemo and a seemingly losing battle with cancer, I wonder if there will be a new butterfly gathering and if it will be their special way of letting me know, “hey, you are not forgotten either!”

The horizontal folded card sample above was created with my Hip and Happy set using Glue Arts adhesives. I printed out the graphics, hand colored and layered the flowers and brads to create this hybrid sample. It is a get well card that I will be sending to my aunt today to let her know how much she is loved. She knows the specialness of butterflies as I have shared the stories of Uncle Muz’ “visits” with her. Soon it may be her time to join the butterfly dance.

Friday, May 28, 2010

My kind of Tweeting!

Ahhh, the craze of social media and networking! It is a love/hate relationship for me. You won't find this girl tweeting, so the closest thing to it is my Take Flight set, my most current collection at Mygrafico. This one has some fun graphic elements and verses that are perfect for Father's Day card or scrapbook page! Safe travels over the Memorial Day Weekend and have fun celebrating sensibly!

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Things Aren’t Always Black & White

...Or Are They?
Just as in life, there are always some grey areas, and this card uses a clean and classic design playing on high contrast b&w colors with a grey pinstripe patterned paper from Doodlebug Designs as a neutral background. The punch and verse are both from Stampin Up!®.
The graphic is a digi stamp design from my Hip & Happy set, available for purchase on www.mygrafico.com.

Also using digi art from the Hip & Happy set, this next birthday card introduces aqua as an accent color to make the designs pop. I used the swirled element in this set colorized in white to create the black & white border strip. That is the exciting thing about working with the editable eps files in Illustrator...you can colorize them to what you want them to be or simply print in b&w or shades of grey added, as shown here for equally fun results.

A close up view of the border and digi art.
Border and Celebrate You verse from Stampin’ Up!®

Thursday, May 20, 2010

The LOVE Bug!!!

Well if you live in Florida, you have experienced a snowfall of lovebugs swarming everywhere. It felt like a lovebug snowfall on Monday. On Tuesday, they covered our dining room window and lined the doorway. I have never experienced anything quite like this in the six years we have been here. I guess it is just nature and spring time! Funny that my latest digital product is called the
Love is Plentiful Collection
. I promise you it was named way before the love bugs arrived, but I am finding it quite ironic! LOL. Full of vibrantly colored graphics and patterned papers in some of my favorite summer colors, this collection will brighten up any card, layout or project you have in mind. Here is a peek at it...


It features 22 items: twelve 12 x 12 papers, 2 borders and 8 graphics for $7.95!
You can purchase it exclusively at Mygrafico.
I would love to feature projects you create with this collection on my blog and
will post items here and in my Mygrafico gallery once I create them.
Hope Love is Plentiful for you today and always!

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Hold On!!!



Life goes by at an amazingly fast pace anymore. For instance, our baby just got her driver’s permit and our eldest daughter will be a Senior in just three days. That means we are steps closer to being empty nesters....yikes, hold on! I am not ready for that yet. I am however ready for some R&R and vacation is coming up soon! These samples are super-sized page holders (aka corner bookmarks) that can be used for big books or magazines. I’m planning to read a few of those while on vacation;D!



I created these using BoBunny’s beautifully patterned cardstocks from their Flutter Butter Collection along with a 2-toned brown & green CS from Coordinations’ Chocolate Box collection.


These aren't the greatest photos, since I had to rush and take them in low light before shipping off these samples for a craft tradeshow. They were used as examples for a make-n-take project at the Glue Arts booth. Don’t you just love the colors and the sayings??? It was so fun to just cut around the graphics to create these page holders. Just imagine what else you can create with this collection.


If you haven’t checked out Glue Arts site recently, they have added some new adhesive products...Raise n’s, dimenisonal double-side adhesive squares and U-Cut-It 3-D Adhesive Foam Blanks, both which work great with embellishments, especially chipboard and 3D items like flowers or frames.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

TAKE the EGID Challenge

Have you ever thought about how much our society revolves around food? It is the center of our celebrations. It is the thing that sustains us, nourishes us and tempts us. Well, imagine a life where you were allergic to the things you liked to eat, or even worse could no longer have an solid foods. That would be torture for just one meal, but imagine a life altered by that dilemma, and you will begin to appreciate the stress, struggles and difficulties, both emotionally, physically and socially of a life with an Eosinophilic disorder.



Our daughter, Kylie, was diagnosed two years ago with one of these disorders known as EE, or [E-O-sin-O-fill-ik E-soph-a-jI-tis] Eosinophilic Esophagitis. It is a condition that is different in each person diagnosed and there are no known cures today, only different medicines, diets and protocols that you hope provide solutions. In my daughter’s case, she went through skin and RAST testing which measure allergic reactions to certain things tested. The skin tests told us things she might be allergic to on a scale from 1 - 4. These included things in the environment as well as foods. The RAST tests were done by taking vials of her blood and testing them for specific allergic responses. The list was narrowed down through the skin tests. This is how we found out that she is anaphylactic to Oats and highly allergic to other items such as wheat, barley, rye and has other sensitivities to eggs, corn and some dairy. It was after much searching for further answers and trying alternative methods of testing for allergies that we found out she is also allergic to B vitamins and more specifically the hormones in milk, rather than lactose or casein. It has been a long journey including trips to the GI (gastroenteroligist) and endoscopies to see what is actually going on inside her throat plus countless, scary trips to the ER while in the middle of a reaction that have helped us to grow a bit wiser in understanding her allergies. We have often kept detailed food diaries since the reactions are commonly delayed with EE. So there is lots of guess work involved in knowing what might have caused the flare ups. And there are always the possibilities of cross contamination by foods being processed at a plant that processes ingredients you are allergic to, even if they are not in the list of ingredients on the label. Uhhh! You get the drift...not an easy road, and try packing things on the go or eating while traveling. It is definitely a challenge.

So how did we get started on this journey of discovery? It started when my husband was having similar incidents of things getting stuck going down that I finally questioned her allergist about it. Dr. Warner said there could definitely be a genetic component and that she thought it was worth talking to a gastroenterologist. And so that began our relationship with Dr. Kubchandani (Dr. K or Dr. Sanjay for short). He is young and smart, and Kylie really respects him. He took a more laid back approach to the EE diagnosis suggesting she start on flovent, a swallowed steroid treatment to shrink the swelling in her throat. Kai was already on so many allergy and asthma meds that this was concerning, but we started on that course. After several scary incidents and reactions, her allergist had something else in mind. It was 9/11/08, a day we will never forget after Kylie’s allergist ordered us to begin a highly restrictive diet. When she listed all the things we had to avoid: [wheat, rye, barley, oats]- basically a gluten-free diet plus no corn, dairy or nuts, I thought we were all going to go nuts! I cried after spending 3 hrs. of shopping at 3 different stores reading labels only to find that one of the banned items was always in the ingredients. It took forever to navigate the grocery store and was more and more depressing reading label after label and feeling the helplessness of not knowing what to possibly feed your child. We were down to very few meats, fruits and some veggies. Many sauces, dressings and seasonings had to be avoided, too. It was a difficult time for us all. As a family, we tried to live within the restrictions ourselves so Kylie didn't have to go it alone, atleast with our family meals. I tried it for a month and it was very challenging and highly restrictive. The easy part was that I had the ability to return to the foods I wanted to eat, and she could not.

Things got easier as we learned alternatives to use in cooking, found new sources for foods, and even some treats. Thank goodness she could have soy, potato and rice to work with! I am very grateful for that as well as the amount of information and support that we have received from other parents on the eosinophylic yahoo group I belong to. We share ideas, treatments, solutions that have worked for our kids, recipes and where to find help and locate good doctors. But incidents continued despite our food journals and what we thought at the time was avoidance to allergic foods. Who knew that there was wheat in Twizzlers licorice or oats in Hot Dog chili? Now, we read ALL labels and never assume. My best advice to parents of newly diagnosed kids.

The reason that I am posting this information now, is that this is National Eosinophilic Awareness Week, and to raise awareness for this growing disorder that is affecting so many people, especially young children at an alarming rate, I am daring you to take the EGID challenge of trying to follow a highly restrictive diet for one day, or even just one meal. If you are on facebook, click on the link above to go to this facebook event.

If not, simply follow these instructions:
On May 14, commit to eating only foods that are free of the top six allergens. These are: Milk (in all forms), Egg, Wheat, Nuts/Peanuts, Soy, and Seafood. This may be quite a difficult task, but after all, this is a CHALLENGE! If you miss doing it on the 14th, try to do this one day or for one meal this week. If you would like to support this cause, consider donating the money that you would normally spend on a coffee, ice cream or one meal to help find a cure. There are two great organizations: CURED and APFED, which raise awareness and support research to help find a cure for EGID (Eosinophilic Gastro Intestinal Disorders). Even a small amount adds up, and yes, the doctors are making progress with their research. Please help them continue making strides towards a cure by donating today in Kylie’s honor. As you can see by her photo, she looks like the average teenager. You would never assume that she has life-threatening food allergies. Not all of the children are as lucky. Some of these children have feeding tubes through their nose or stomach that help sustain them. You can read more about them on the websites below.

To donate to CURED, click here.
To donate to APFED, click here, then click on the donations link.
Feel proud that you are helping brighten the lives of the families and children effected by EGID. And the next time you feel deprived because you missed out on a chocolate chip cookie or favorite meal, count your many blessings and pray for a cure. God Bless You!

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Wind and Surf

This spring has been much windier than I recall since we moved six years ago. Yes, can you believe that...it seems just yesterday that we experienced that record amount of hurricanes that welcomed us in 2004. Usually by now the Wenger family should have a great jumpstart on our tans and frequented the beach more than a handful of times, but schedules and life has kept us far from the beach. We did get to go enjoy the beach on Mother’s Day. It was windy and the waves were crashing. It seems to be windier than usual and better waves than in years past. We are hoping to hae great fun up at Ron Jon’s with the surf board this year!

The weather conditions made me think of this birthday card I made recently. The surfer stamp is from Stampin’ Up! and the the cool flourish I picked up at Michaels before Christmas. I used Versamark ink and white embossing powder to create the deco wave on top of the cardstock and patterned paper layers along with my trusty Glue Glider™ Pro to assemble it!

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Mother’s Day Stitchery




Yesterday I finished up on some Mother’s Day cards I made using my newest digi stamp set called “Sew” Long Flowers. I am providing a link to my sample album for this set and samples of the Mom Stitched Verse freebie that I told you about in yesterday’s post. If you click on the card photo you can read a description of what I used and how I created these. They are also in the photo gallery on MyGrafico so be sure to check them out and leave me comments. Hope you enjoyed the sneak peek. Be sure to check out the other samples! These cards, below, use the cute patterned papers from Cosmo Cricket’s Earth Love Mini Deck papers. I also posted some tips in my photo descriptions on using Glue Arts adhesives for attaching some of the 3-D elements.

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

A FREEBIE in honor of all Moms

I created this digi stamp as a thank you to all the mom's out there for all the little things you do for your families that often goes unnoticed. This is a great little verse to add to a card for any mom, aunt, grandmom! Perfect for Mother’s Day, Birthday or simply to say thanks for being there. You can edit the art in Illustrator to use the border by itself, delete text, add your own, color the background with pastels or markers. Great for scrapbook page layouts, too! I included some ideas in the set preview. To download this, go to this Freebie link on MyGrafico.com.

This is a peek at the preview...


So you may be wondering, how do I use a digi stamp? It is simple. You can place the file into a word processing program, scale and print out. If you own a photo editing or graphics editing program such as Photoshop, Illustrator, Paint Shop Pro, Corel Draw, etc., you can colorize, edit, then print or use digitally on projects.

I will be taking photos of Mother's Day cards using this stamp today. Hope to post them by tomorrow to help inspire you with your cardmaking.